Don’t let other people’s careless bullshit affect you. Don’t be bullied by people who think they have you in a corner and if you see someone being treated unfairly or bullied, stop it.
It sounds easy to say, “say something,” but it’s the hardest thing for people to do. Not many people really like confrontation. Nobody likes to stick their neck out.
But when you do, you give off that vibe that you’re not afraid of them and could give a fuck. This automatically gives you the upper-hand. Most bullies and jerks are cowards and they will respect your saying something; cower and slink away.
Sometimes they may mouth off back at you and at that point it’s best to just smile, walk or turn away. Cut them off at the knees. You stuck up for yourself or someone else, no need for a further fight. Let them look stupid.
While it’s hard to do at first, it gets easier as time goes on. You’re doing yourself a favor by not getting shoved around and helping others at the same time. Whether it be right then or in the future.
So try it. If you see something, say something. You’ll feel better. Trust me.
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