When I was younger and a more narcissistic twat, I thought everybody and everything needed to be changed. That I was all mighty and holier than now. Everybody around me was a jerk and needed to work around my wants and needs.
I think this is common in adolescence. As teenagers and young adults we lack the introspection that allows us to understand that the only way to attain true improvement is to change ourselves, for ourselves.
No changing for other people, that never works, nor should it. It’s imperative to be yourself. I don’t care if you’re shooting heroin in a bathroom, the only person to make you change that behavior is you.
And if you don’t like being friends with the heroin addict in the bathroom, make the change and remove them from your life.
We can’t change people. It never works. Through self improvement and changing ourselves for the better, we in turn change the world. Make life progressively more pleasant as a whole.
My inner narcissistic twat has been long gone. Hopefully you’ve kicked yours to the curb as well. They’re not good for much. Except for acne scares and bad outfits. And who the fuck likes any of that shit, really?
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I think this is common in adolescence. As teenagers and young adults we lack the introspection that allows us to understand that the only way to attain true improvement is to change ourselves, for ourselves.
No changing for other people, that never works, nor should it. It’s imperative to be yourself. I don’t care if you’re shooting heroin in a bathroom, the only person to make you change that behavior is you.
And if you don’t like being friends with the heroin addict in the bathroom, make the change and remove them from your life.
We can’t change people. It never works. Through self improvement and changing ourselves for the better, we in turn change the world. Make life progressively more pleasant as a whole.
My inner narcissistic twat has been long gone. Hopefully you’ve kicked yours to the curb as well. They’re not good for much. Except for acne scares and bad outfits. And who the fuck likes any of that shit, really?
Check out the blog on it's home site @
www.hihaveyoumetme.com for previous writings and more.
Don’t forget to stalk me further at https://twitter.com/#!/hihaveyoumetme orhttp://www.facebook.com/authorkatemonahan