“Münchausen syndrome by proxy (MSbP or MBP) is a controversial term that is used to describe a behavior pattern in which a caregiverdeliberately exaggerates, fabricates, and/or induces physical, psychological, behavioral, and/or mental health problems in those who are in their care. With deception at its core, this behavior is an elusive, potentially lethal, and frequently misunderstood form of child abuse[3] or medical neglect[4] that has been difficult to define, detect and confirm.” - Wikipedia
When most people think of this disorder they think of the parent/child example.
But apply it loosely to the relationships on your life…this shit is everywhere, in small to large doses.
Not the exact disorder, necessarily, but forms of it. No Sixth Sense bullshit or anything; but what about those gross individuals in your life that just make you feel awful? The one’s that cause your head to cloud with negativity and doubt? Eventually mentally poisoning you until you, yourself become mentally or physically ill.
You can almost feel the beast creeping into your earlobes. The happy, healthy, head space you’ve spent so much time creating, has darkened. Their vile, venomous, vomit has now invaded your territory and guess what, Bubba? It’s not leaving without them.
You begin to feel sick, tired, weird, down in the dumps. The darkness you worked so hard to get away from is coming back - and you know it’s coming from them…
So why the fuck would you stick around? Why continue to let the beast in and shit all over your subconscious and conscious mind?
Because you don’t want to be Alone?
Be alone. It’s better. You’ll feel good. The weight of the mental shit the asshole other person has dropped will be lifted. It takes time to fade, but it does.
Or because you think they will Change?
Someone putting negative shit on you, putting you in potentially negative situations and making you feel like crap, especially early on Will. Not. Change. They’re wired abusers. They get high off bringing others down, especially those they’re jealous of, feel are happier than them or have a desire to take down. Fucking run.
Or maybe they’re your “Friend”? (Take out the "R", what do you get?)
They constantly pick at you, peck away at you or give you shit about how you look, act, feel. I don’t give a shit if you’ve known, Jenny What’s Her Tits since grade school, dump the cunt and let her dump on somebody else.
Or a Boss?
You need the job because you need the money and you need the money to survive. Understood. But look for a new one. Once you have it, get the fuck out of there and go ahead and throw the middle finger in the asshole’s direction, just don’t do anything to harm yourself, others or that might get you arrested. No going postal…
But it’s a Family Member?
Fuck them too. Your friends are the family you choose, as is your choice of partner etc. Just because you share a bloodline doesn’t mean you have to take any form of mental shit disturbance from them.
See? This kind of bad behavior is everywhere.
After recently dealing with a mild form of this shit myself, (where my head was invaded by a real low life sack of shit, with intentions to hunt, maim and kill my ass), I decided to write about it. To maybe save some others the bother of these dick-heads.
I’m not saying to run out and point the finger at everyone who gives you a look that makes you feel poopy, screaming they have Münchausen syndrome by proxy.
But be aware. When someone starts to make you feel bad, get rid of them. This shit just doesn’t come out of nowhere with a big, “fuck you, mother fucker,” and that’s it.
It’s little bit, by little bit. People who dump on you, take out their problems on you and tell you things wrong about yourself - this is the kind of behavior to run from. They’re wearing you down.
Also a big sign - when you tell them their behaviors are upsetting you, they either respond by turning it back around to you or acknowledging it and continuing to do it.
In my case, when I started to figure out why I was feeling drained and black inside; mine would say, “I know this is hard for you, but you’ll get better,” in regards to him being a mental Münchausen psycho.
Bitch, please. I’ve been around too long and seen too much shit in my day to let that cheap shit fly.
So don’t take anybody’s abuse and don’t drink the water. It’s poison.
Get the fuck out and don’t feel bad hurling a few choice words at them on your way out. They can take it, trust me.
Check out the blog on it's home site @ www.hihaveyoumetme.com for previous writings and more.
Don’t forget to stalk me further at https://twitter.com/#!/hihaveyoumetme orhttp://www.facebook.com/authorkatemonahan
When most people think of this disorder they think of the parent/child example.
But apply it loosely to the relationships on your life…this shit is everywhere, in small to large doses.
Not the exact disorder, necessarily, but forms of it. No Sixth Sense bullshit or anything; but what about those gross individuals in your life that just make you feel awful? The one’s that cause your head to cloud with negativity and doubt? Eventually mentally poisoning you until you, yourself become mentally or physically ill.
You can almost feel the beast creeping into your earlobes. The happy, healthy, head space you’ve spent so much time creating, has darkened. Their vile, venomous, vomit has now invaded your territory and guess what, Bubba? It’s not leaving without them.
You begin to feel sick, tired, weird, down in the dumps. The darkness you worked so hard to get away from is coming back - and you know it’s coming from them…
So why the fuck would you stick around? Why continue to let the beast in and shit all over your subconscious and conscious mind?
Because you don’t want to be Alone?
Be alone. It’s better. You’ll feel good. The weight of the mental shit the asshole other person has dropped will be lifted. It takes time to fade, but it does.
Or because you think they will Change?
Someone putting negative shit on you, putting you in potentially negative situations and making you feel like crap, especially early on Will. Not. Change. They’re wired abusers. They get high off bringing others down, especially those they’re jealous of, feel are happier than them or have a desire to take down. Fucking run.
Or maybe they’re your “Friend”? (Take out the "R", what do you get?)
They constantly pick at you, peck away at you or give you shit about how you look, act, feel. I don’t give a shit if you’ve known, Jenny What’s Her Tits since grade school, dump the cunt and let her dump on somebody else.
Or a Boss?
You need the job because you need the money and you need the money to survive. Understood. But look for a new one. Once you have it, get the fuck out of there and go ahead and throw the middle finger in the asshole’s direction, just don’t do anything to harm yourself, others or that might get you arrested. No going postal…
But it’s a Family Member?
Fuck them too. Your friends are the family you choose, as is your choice of partner etc. Just because you share a bloodline doesn’t mean you have to take any form of mental shit disturbance from them.
See? This kind of bad behavior is everywhere.
After recently dealing with a mild form of this shit myself, (where my head was invaded by a real low life sack of shit, with intentions to hunt, maim and kill my ass), I decided to write about it. To maybe save some others the bother of these dick-heads.
I’m not saying to run out and point the finger at everyone who gives you a look that makes you feel poopy, screaming they have Münchausen syndrome by proxy.
But be aware. When someone starts to make you feel bad, get rid of them. This shit just doesn’t come out of nowhere with a big, “fuck you, mother fucker,” and that’s it.
It’s little bit, by little bit. People who dump on you, take out their problems on you and tell you things wrong about yourself - this is the kind of behavior to run from. They’re wearing you down.
Also a big sign - when you tell them their behaviors are upsetting you, they either respond by turning it back around to you or acknowledging it and continuing to do it.
In my case, when I started to figure out why I was feeling drained and black inside; mine would say, “I know this is hard for you, but you’ll get better,” in regards to him being a mental Münchausen psycho.
Bitch, please. I’ve been around too long and seen too much shit in my day to let that cheap shit fly.
So don’t take anybody’s abuse and don’t drink the water. It’s poison.
Get the fuck out and don’t feel bad hurling a few choice words at them on your way out. They can take it, trust me.
Check out the blog on it's home site @ www.hihaveyoumetme.com for previous writings and more.
Don’t forget to stalk me further at https://twitter.com/#!/hihaveyoumetme orhttp://www.facebook.com/authorkatemonahan