I’ve gone on and on about how we need to stick up for ourselves and if we see something, say something.
If you see people fucking with others, put them in their place. Don’t get hurt or cause a bigger scene; but don’t let that shit go.
But what about opinions?
White lies?
When is it okay to bullshit a person?
Let’s tackle the last. Bullshit and white lies. If it protects someone’s feelings, fuck it, fine.
Example. Your friend is sporting a sparkle and sequin infested top and you think it’s terrible. They, (obviously), think it’s great and it makes them happy. They ask if you like it.
Telling them you think it’s total garbage isn’t going to do anybody any good and they’ll probably get their feelings hurt and feel like an asshole until they can change.
Ego’s are sensitive and there’s no harm in letting little shit go.
If the person says, “heroin makes me happy, should I buy a bag?” Say no and suggest a nearby rehab facility.
Common sense.
Now back to your opinion and the garbage shirt example. If unasked, should you offer your opinion?
Only if you’re a real cunt.
Why be mean? Why put something negative in someone’s head? You’re not wearing it.
If it has no affect on you besides the fact that you don’t like it, keep your trap shut.
I’ve had some nasty shit said to me for absolutely no reason. I didn’t ask, nor was I speaking to them. Below are 5 examples where people have come up to me and offered their opinions.
TOP 5 - Rude Shit Said To Me (yes, about my tattoos)
1. What are you going to look like in a wedding dress?
I was sitting and eating solo. And this douche at the next table felt the need to pose this question.
2. You’d be so pretty without all of that (pointing to my arms).
Old woman in line at Saks felt the need to offer that with a smile.
3. I don’t like tattoos. Very unattractive.
Older guy in line at Starbucks. I informed him that I didn’t care for his face, but I was polite enough to keep it to myself.
4. Don’t you miss being sexy? You could model.
Clerk at Bloomingdales. Really? I actually get more work this way, asshole.
5. Those are just terrible.
A man with his kids while dining out. Pointing at me. Telling his kids to never get tattoos. So I gave his kids my artist’s card.
People offer up lame shit on a platter, unordered. It hurts. Sure I come off like a big hard ass, but that shit still stings. Takes the piss right out of me.
Someone I don’t know has stopped by to piss in my sandbox, uninvited while I mind my own business.
Unless asked, I keep my mouth shut. I hate boat shoes, but I sure don’t go out of my way to tell the son of a bitch wearing them he looks like a dick. And if he asked me, I’d say he rocked the fuck out of them.
No need to bring anybody down. Opinions are like assholes. We all have them and half the time all they produce is shit anyway.
I know I’ve never laid a golden fucking egg. I keep my shit to myself.
Unless someone is being offensive and mean, then all bets are off.
So keep you dick in your pants, piss in your own sandbox and keep your shit to yourself. It works for me.
Check out the blog on it's home site @
www.hihaveyoumetme.com for previous writings and more.
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If you see people fucking with others, put them in their place. Don’t get hurt or cause a bigger scene; but don’t let that shit go.
But what about opinions?
White lies?
When is it okay to bullshit a person?
Let’s tackle the last. Bullshit and white lies. If it protects someone’s feelings, fuck it, fine.
Example. Your friend is sporting a sparkle and sequin infested top and you think it’s terrible. They, (obviously), think it’s great and it makes them happy. They ask if you like it.
Telling them you think it’s total garbage isn’t going to do anybody any good and they’ll probably get their feelings hurt and feel like an asshole until they can change.
Ego’s are sensitive and there’s no harm in letting little shit go.
If the person says, “heroin makes me happy, should I buy a bag?” Say no and suggest a nearby rehab facility.
Common sense.
Now back to your opinion and the garbage shirt example. If unasked, should you offer your opinion?
Only if you’re a real cunt.
Why be mean? Why put something negative in someone’s head? You’re not wearing it.
If it has no affect on you besides the fact that you don’t like it, keep your trap shut.
I’ve had some nasty shit said to me for absolutely no reason. I didn’t ask, nor was I speaking to them. Below are 5 examples where people have come up to me and offered their opinions.
TOP 5 - Rude Shit Said To Me (yes, about my tattoos)
1. What are you going to look like in a wedding dress?
I was sitting and eating solo. And this douche at the next table felt the need to pose this question.
2. You’d be so pretty without all of that (pointing to my arms).
Old woman in line at Saks felt the need to offer that with a smile.
3. I don’t like tattoos. Very unattractive.
Older guy in line at Starbucks. I informed him that I didn’t care for his face, but I was polite enough to keep it to myself.
4. Don’t you miss being sexy? You could model.
Clerk at Bloomingdales. Really? I actually get more work this way, asshole.
5. Those are just terrible.
A man with his kids while dining out. Pointing at me. Telling his kids to never get tattoos. So I gave his kids my artist’s card.
People offer up lame shit on a platter, unordered. It hurts. Sure I come off like a big hard ass, but that shit still stings. Takes the piss right out of me.
Someone I don’t know has stopped by to piss in my sandbox, uninvited while I mind my own business.
Unless asked, I keep my mouth shut. I hate boat shoes, but I sure don’t go out of my way to tell the son of a bitch wearing them he looks like a dick. And if he asked me, I’d say he rocked the fuck out of them.
No need to bring anybody down. Opinions are like assholes. We all have them and half the time all they produce is shit anyway.
I know I’ve never laid a golden fucking egg. I keep my shit to myself.
Unless someone is being offensive and mean, then all bets are off.
So keep you dick in your pants, piss in your own sandbox and keep your shit to yourself. It works for me.
Check out the blog on it's home site @
www.hihaveyoumetme.com for previous writings and more.
Don’t forget to stalk me further at https://twitter.com/#!/hihaveyoumetme orhttp://www.facebook.com/authorkatemonahan